Monica Fuhrken

1983 - 2002
LocationRheine Germany
Age19 years
Cause of DeathRoad Traffic Collision
Date of Birth17/08/1983
Date of Death05/12/2002
Visitors1,596 since 22/03/2008
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My beautiful fearless Moni, you were taken much too soon and have left so much pain and sorrow.
There is no day goes by without me thinking of you, remembering your days and yearning to hold you
in my arms.


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~~~Grieving Silently~~~

Why must I grieve silently,
When my heart is so loudly screaming
The emptiness I feel is comsuming me,
Oh God, how I wish I were dreaming.

The silence around me is deafening
for nobody knows what to say
to comfort this agony I'm feeling
Since my daughter went away.

Each day the sun continues to rise
and the earth is still turning though my world
has come to a screeching halt
no one can ease my yearning.

For a part of me has vanished
and a part of my heart has died
and no one can hear my heartache
or feel the turmoil I carry inside.

And I'll go on grieving silently
and exist on a different plane
and I'll keep my love for her deep in my heart
until we see each other again.

by Sandi DeMars

Christine Fuhrken (Mum) April 8, 2008

My little flower

RESTING WHERE NO SHADOWS FALL
JESUS CALLED A LITTLE CHILD

A TINY FLOWER LENT NOT GIVEN
TO BUD ON EARTH AND BLOOM IN HEAVEN
REUNITED

UNTIL THE DAY DAWNS
THE LORD IS MY SHEPHARD I SHALL NOT WANT
TO WAKE AGAIN IN HEAVEN
PEACE PERFECT PEACE
REST AFTER WEARINESS
I KNOW THAT MY REDEEMER LIVETH
GRANT HIM THY ETERNAL REST

OUT OF THE DEPTH I HAVE CRIED TO THEE
LORD - 'HEAR MY PRAYER'

THY WILL BE DONE

Christine Fuhrken (Mum) April 7, 2008

COULD ONE OF US HAVE HELD YOUR HAND
OR HEARD YOUR LAST FAREWELL
THE PARTING WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN SO BAD
FOR THOSE THAT LOVE YOU STILL.

Christine Fuhrken (Mum) April 7, 2008

A beautiful poem found on this site, says it all.........

I’ll lend you for a little time
A child of mine, he said,
For you to love her while she lives
And mourn for when she’s gone.

It may be six or thirteen years,
Or twenty-two, or three,
But will you, till I call her back
Take care of her for me?

She’ll bring her charm to gladden you
And should her stay be brief,
You’ll have her lovely memories
As solace for your grief.

I cannot promise she will stay
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.

I’ve looked this wide world over
In search of teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lane
I’ve decided upon you.

Now will you give her all your love
Nor think the labour vain
And hate me when I come to call
To take her home again.

I fancy that I heard them say
‘Dear Lord thy will be done,
For all the joy, this child will bring
The risk of grief, we’ll run.

We’ll shelter her with tenderness
And love her while we may
And for the happiness we’ve known
Forever grateful stay.

And should the angels call for her
Much sooner than we planned,
We’ll brave the sadness that we feel
And try to understand.

Christine Fuhrken (Mum) April 5, 2008

ttmab

Just miss you every day. cant believe that you are gone. I know you are close I know that you can see us. I wish that i could just have had one more day with you. There is so much i never got to tell you and share with you. I know there will be a time when we will reunite and be together again. i love you.

Susan (Brother-in-Law) March 29, 2008

Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

Christine Fuhrken (Mum) March 23, 2008
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